Posts in Family Matters
The Family Consigliere: How Aker Secured Multigenerational Wealth with a Multimillion-Dollar Real Estate Sale… and Beyond

I’ve been in wealth management since 1998. Before that, I practiced corporate tax law at Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton, & Garrison and worked as an investment banker at JP Morgan. I’ve seen the topic of financial security from many angles: the legal, the numerical, and most recently, the psychological and emotional.

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False Gods: “Magical Trusts Will Teach My Children Well”

As a wealth advisor, I often have conversations with parents concerned about spoiling their children. “I just don’t want my kid to turn into Paris Hilton,” they tell me, using “Hilton” as a byword for all that can go wrong with a privileged upbringing. Their children are often either adolescents or young adults, displaying some Hilton-esque warning signs.

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It’s Too Darn Hard: The Need for Effective Family Governance

The proverb “shirtsleeves-to-shirtsleeves” refers to a toxic pattern in family wealth, in which the resources accumulated by one generation are exhausted by a later one. How can we build wealth sustainably that goes beyond 2 or 3 generations?The short answer, effective family governance.

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Bringing it All Back Home: Why Bob Dylan Sold His Catalog for $300 Million

Despite my decade-plus-long devotion to Dylan’s music, I unfortunately don’t possess a channel directly into the man’s mind. I can’t say with absolute certainty why Dylan decided now was the time to sell, but I have one hypothesis which I haven’t read elsewhere: He’s looking out for his kids.

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